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My Past

I have come a million miles from the sexually, physically and emotionally abusive home that I was raised in. I have severed all ties with both of my parents, have moved to a different state and have spent many, many years finding me again. The last long term relationship that I was in was for […]


Making This More Comfortable for Me?

I love my new apartment!   It’s gorgeous, bright, airy, and spacious.   My roommate seems nice enough, but never talks.   If she does, it’s two word answers or just very matter of fact and short.   When we have to communicate over e-mail, she gives the briefest of responses.I’m not sure if she’s moody, curt, or just […]


What Should I Say To Her?

My spouse of 7 years surprised me when, after I got sick, she took care of our kids and me for the week.  I mean totally.  For the life of me I never imagined this could happen.  She does a wonderful job managing our kids, and she has repeatedly said our 2 are all she […]


Being In Our Joy

Yesterday I reached out and with all my heart, I asked the Universe to let me hear from a friend that I hadn’t heard from.  I literally put my head in my hands, my head down at my desk at work, and closed my eyes and felt so deeply how great it would be to […]


The Marriage Is Over

How do I stop blaming myself for the end of my marriage Lets do the math. I would give myself one minute for everyday that I was in my marriage to blame myself, hate myself, berate myself. So if you have been married 20 years that comes out to about 7,300 minutes or 121.66 hours. […]


Estranged From My Grown Children

My grown kids haven’t spoken to me in 2 years, as the holidays approach I get very sad they are not in my life. How am I going to get through the next 2 weeks? Any suggestions? I can imagine how difficult this is for you. Please understand that It can only be their own disconnection from […]


Stuck In Self Sabotage

I have identified my patterns of self sabotage and that is as far as I ever get. I am stuck ! Where is that “small opening of light” that you refer to? I believe that identifying any pattern of thought/behavior about oneself is always a good thing, and I also believe that it can become […]


Am I Just Tripping?

I work at Starbucks as a barista and everyday the same very hot girl comes in and gives me her coffee order, but she like looks deep into my eyes and touches my soul and I feel like a strong connection to her. I don’t even know this person but is it possible that the […]


Have You Written The Book Yet?

In one of your radio show interviews you mentioned a book that you were writing having something to do with the deals that we make and break with ourselves. Have you written that book and where can I get a copy. I have set it aside for the time being but this is the premise: […]


What Kind Of Expert Are You?

I have watched many episodes of the Living Consciously cable t.v. show that you are in and you always open the show by saying that “living consciously is a lovely option.” How are we going to make a real difference in this world if we do not live a conscious life. Are you not an […]


Is He Having An Affair

I just found out that my husband of almost 7 years has been having an online long distance relationship with another married women. He promises me that they have never seen each other in person which I actually believe because my husband works from home and does not travel. My question is this? Does his […]


Eternal Damnation!?

Do you believe that all of the bad people in our lives go to hell? Wow! Well first of all I actually do not believe that there are any bad people. What I do believe is that some people experience times of serious disconnection with themselves which completely throws them out of alignment. This means […]