My current partner and I were sharing a very good level of of being together and trusting each other for about 18 months until last Aug. At that time I was using her computer and found rather explicit pictures of herself sent to her previous short term lover/possible partner of only 8 months duration. I […]
Jul 29, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Dating, Help I Am Stuck, Jealousy, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Should I Stay Or Should I Go | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I have done the unthinkable! We were drunk and I slept with my girlfriends fiance. OMG and WTF am I going to do? What kills me is that he will be having sex with other women and he is engaged to my soon to be x girlfriend. Do I warn her knowing that our friendship […]
Jul 20, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Jealousy, Love and Relationships, Sex and More Sex | Tags: affair, communication, Connection, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I have a sense about my wife’s infidelities and have not known what to do about them. My fear is that if I do admit this to myself then I will have to do something about it and I am not sure that I am emotionally strong enough to do anything. I feel like my […]
Jul 16, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex | Tags: affair, Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I am happily married yet find myself checking out other men like all of the time. What is wrong with me? Nothing is wrong with you. Just because your on a diet it does not mean that you cannot read the dessert menu. We can be physically attracted to many people and it does not […]
Jul 06, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Energy, Loving, Role-playing, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
My roommate engages in all kinds of what I consider to be promiscuous sexual behavior uses drugs and frequently drinks alcohol in excess. She has no consequences not a STD a hang over or an overdose. Mystified, I asked her to justify her behavior and she said one word ‘alignment’ and then she handed me […]
Jul 04, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Dating, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Spiritually Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Energy, Self-love, Trusting, truth, vibration | Leave A Comment »
After I graduated from college last year I landed the most incredible job. My parents set me up in a very chic two bedroom apartment that they bought as an investment in Manhattan. At their insistence I pay almost nothing in rent and they come into the city now and then and spend the weekend […]
Jun 29, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: affair, Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Parenting, Self-love, Temptation, Trusting, truth, vibration | Leave A Comment »
I have run out of ways to hold my boyfriends attention in the bedroom. I know that this is my issue and you are probably going to say that I am being insecure but I cannot compete with all the pornographic sites that I find him perusing. How can I trump something that is not […]
Jun 27, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Highlights, Jealousy, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Connection, Cybersex, Ego, Energy, Loving, Role-playing, Self-love, Trusting, truth, vibration | Leave A Comment »
I thought that I could be all open and shit and handle a open sexual relationship with this girl that I have been seeing. It was all fine and good until I would run into her and she was with another guy. I am pissed at myself for not being secure enough to handle this […]
Jun 19, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Jealousy, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
Dearest Jamie, I am having a delicious affair with a loving, oh so adoring and extremely attentive unmarried man who is 10 years younger than myself. I cannot remember when I have felt this happy. I keep waiting for the guilt and self hatred to set in, but it is not happening. If anything I am […]
May 24, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Spiritually Speaking, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: affair, Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
My husband has not been interested in sex since he lost his job 14 months ago. He begs me to go on one of those dating sites for married people and find a lover. He is consumed with guilt about neglecting the emotional and physical aspect of our marriage and he says that it is […]
May 23, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: affair, Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
My wife reads a lot and I usually do not give much thought to her reading selections but this book has really gotten my attention. Not only is she reading a sex trilogy she wants me to blind fold her with my tie take her over my knee and spank her and then have kinky […]
May 16, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Jealousy, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex | Tags: communication, Loving, Oral Sex, Role-playing, Sex, Temptation, Trusting | Leave A Comment »
The happiest memories of my childhood are from the times spent with my mother. I was an extension of her and she loved and adored me with all of her heart. I wanted to be a mother myself one day too share this sweet relationship with my own child. I am 34 years old and […]
May 14, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Spiritually Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Energy, Loving, Parenting, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
My 16 year old daughter has been interested in boys since the young age of 13. Since this time she has either been crushing on boys or dating boys. She has repeatedly told me not to worry because she knows what she is doing. I have believed this to be true until last week. I […]
May 10, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Dating, Family Relationships, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Parenting, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
It is not all about the sex, but it is all about the sex. Every since that starry summer night when my totally hot 18 year old neighbor sweetly introduced me to sex (upon my request) I have used sex as the emotional gateway to the connection with myself. It is the sex that drives […]
Apr 30, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
If a women loses her virginity, does it mean that she no longer deserves to be respected? I have always thought about virginity as something that you give away happily and willingly. We must honor and cherish ourselves; both of which fall into the category of deeply respecting ourselves. It is a beautiful thing when […]
Apr 17, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Spiritually Speaking, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: communication, Connection, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
Why do I lose myself when I fall in love? Falling in love is such a beautiful thing and it is also a chemical thing. The research shows that when a person falls in love, 12 areas of the brain work together to release euphoria-inducing chemicals such as dopamine, oxytocin, adrenaline and vasopression.We can easily […]
Apr 13, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Dating, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Spiritually Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
After almost 40 years of marriage I just discovered that my husband has been unfaithful. He admitted to me that he has been so at different times during our marriage but currently this is not one of them. This discovery came to my attention a few days before one of our grown children was to […]
Apr 02, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Should I Stay Or Should I Go, Spiritually Speaking | Tags: affair, Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Parenting, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I am a 56 year old recently divorced women who has been out of the dating scene for a very long time. What are your thoughts about who should have the condoms available for safe sex. Do I carry them with me or do I assume that these men that I am going to date […]
Mar 20, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Dating, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Sex and More Sex | Tags: communication, Connection, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting | Leave A Comment »
It happens especially when I am in a great relationship with the perfect women, which I am now. I get restless and wreck less. I stray from my secure relationship and am out on the prowl for hot sex. I have ruined many good relationships because of this almost uncontrollable, immature sexual urge. I just […]
Mar 15, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Uncategorized | Tags: affair, Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I have been intimately involved with a married man for 3 years. His wife has MS and from the beginning of our sexual relationship he made his position abundantly clear to me. He loves her and will never leave her. I went into this relationship with my eyes wide open but I believe that I […]
Feb 25, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: affair, Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
When is sexual pleasure with multiple partners considered to be promiscuity The definition of the word promiscuous as well as the inference implies that of someone whom is indiscriminate, casual and somehow haphazard or irresponsible. The judgement within this adjective is completely contrary to the word and meaning of pleasure. We can certainly choose to […]
Feb 23, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
My father beat my mother daily and when I turned 13 I stepped in and called the police. We moved away from my father that year and have not seen him since. I am now 22 years old and have come to realize that every women that I get involved with is somehow needing to […]
Feb 16, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: communication, Connection, Loving, Parenting, Role-playing, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I live in New Jersey and take the train into NYC for my job. My co-worker lives in NYC and we have a nice rapport with one another. We casually chat about our spouses but I have never met her husband, only seen photos of him on her desk. I recently saw him in my […]
Feb 15, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Jealousy, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: affair, Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
