Stuck In Self Sabotage
I have identified my patterns of self sabotage and that is as far as I ever get. I am stuck ! Where is that “small opening of light” that you refer to? I believe that identifying any pattern of thought/behavior about oneself is always a good thing, and I also believe that it can become […]
I Cheated On My Wife
I cheated on my wife and I cannot forgive myself even though she has forgiven me. Can you help me? Forgiveness is one of the keys to your own happiness. When you are able to forgive yourself you are then able to forgive others. Forgiveness is a release. When you can release your feelings of […]
Are Men Just Hardwired To Cheat?
Why do spouses have affairs. Are men just hardwired to cheat? Men are hardwired for sex, sex and more sex. However men are not hardwired to cheat. I believe that when “spouses have affairs” it has more to do with a breakdown in communication with themselves first and then with their spouse or partner. Cheating […]
How Can I Parent Her?
My daughter can be so happy & open one minute and disrespectful with a bad tone in her voice the next. Usually she will turn nice if she wants something. Then when I try to help her organize herself so she can study better for tests or projects she turns nasty. It seems that past experiences […]
Who Do You Think You Are?
Who do you think you are, some kind of fucking guru or what? I love this question! I know exactly who I am and believe that I always have. Actually I believe that we all know quite well who we are. We have simply practiced ourselves away from our inner-knowing. I have, quite consciously chosen, […]
Just Not Happy
I want to be happy for others, but I am not. What does that say about me? Am I just a horrible friend? No, I mean yes. Let me explain. You are not a “horrible friend” to others and yes in this moment your unhappiness for others quite clearly indicates that you have become a […]
Am I Just Tripping?
I work at Starbucks as a barista and everyday the same very hot girl comes in and gives me her coffee order, but she like looks deep into my eyes and touches my soul and I feel like a strong connection to her. I don’t even know this person but is it possible that the […]
I AM 18
I am 18. I am a pretty happy person and I live in a pretty unhappy home. I do not know what to do. My parents will not allow me to move out until I turn 21, they just told me. When I ask other people what to do until then, I always get “go […]
Have You Written The Book Yet?
In one of your radio show interviews you mentioned a book that you were writing having something to do with the deals that we make and break with ourselves. Have you written that book and where can I get a copy. I have set it aside for the time being but this is the premise: […]
Home For The Holidays WTF
The holidays are a really weird time for me. I have a lot of fun with my family but sometimes the dis-function is way to overwhelming. Most recently, during thanksgiving, I kept asking myself “who the fuck are these people?” How can I maintain a connection with my family (who I often feel totally at […]
Sex And The Brain
What is that feeling after being with a lover and having a luscious time with them? It almost feels like being “in love”. I feel like I’m floating and happy and easy breezy. It feels great. If I don’t see my lover again for awhile, does that feeling have to leave – how can I […]
Do We All Have A Shot?
I am a successful nice looking 41 year old single man. I go out with a lot of beautiful interesting women but do not feel compelled to start a lasting relationship with any of them. Part of me thinks that I should be more practical because I want to get married and have a family […]
Making Sex Just Sex
After I sleep with a man I feel emotionally bonded to them, even if we are not in a relationship, why does this happen and is there any way for me to make sex just sex? I would like to offer this definition of sex: Sex is the expressing and receiving of physical and emotional […]
What Kind Of Expert Are You?
I have watched many episodes of the Living Consciously cable t.v. show that you are in and you always open the show by saying that “living consciously is a lovely option.” How are we going to make a real difference in this world if we do not live a conscious life. Are you not an […]
Is He Having An Affair
I just found out that my husband of almost 7 years has been having an online long distance relationship with another married women. He promises me that they have never seen each other in person which I actually believe because my husband works from home and does not travel. My question is this? Does his […]
Eternal Damnation!?
Do you believe that all of the bad people in our lives go to hell? Wow! Well first of all I actually do not believe that there are any bad people. What I do believe is that some people experience times of serious disconnection with themselves which completely throws them out of alignment. This means […]
Revenge Fantasies
What are your thoughts on revenge? – Anonymous Revenge is a most interesting and very intense feeling that is often experienced in the form of a fantasy where we imagine, sometimes quite vividly, the targeted person or persons with the clear intent of doing harm to them as we firmly believe that they have intentionally […]
Ego Please Stand Down
I read your facebook posts everyday. I want to have a better understanding of what you mean by asking the ego to stand down? – Anonymous When we can consciously create a clear connection with ourselves we feel secure. We feel certain about who we are and what we want for ourselves. We begin to […]
