Highlights
Please help me. I am in a emotionally abusive relationship and cannot find any power in knowing this. In fact I hate myself for not having the guts to leave. How is knowing and not doing anything about it having power?
I would like to assist you in better understanding the power of having access to your inner knowing. Your inner knowing comes from your inner being which is the unconditionally loving on call 24/7, free of all judgement part of you that is, when you allow yourself to tap into, reminding you in the most loving way, that you have created a gap between where you are and who you are. There is enormous power in the understanding that when you are ready to begin to close the gap from where you are and move toward who you are that you will have access to the tremendous support system of your inner being to draw strength from as you step into the brightly lit path toward coming home. Coming home is where you relax into your loving reconnection with yourself. This is your power.
Mar 08, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Psychologically Speaking, Should I Stay Or Should I Go, Spiritually Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I have been going to therapy for almost one year and am feeling as if it is time for me to take a break. My problem is that I am concerned about how my therapist will take this revelation of mine.
I would like to think that it is partially because of your therapy that you have come to this revelation and I believe that your therapist will feel the same way. Who would know better for you than you! No one would or ever will. Trust yourself and you will always be in good hands, your own.
Mar 06, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Highlights, Psychologically Speaking, Spiritually Speaking, Uncategorized | Tags: communication, Ego, Energy, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I am a male who experiences a lot of spontaneous erections. It’s ridiculous. My problem is that I model nude for art classes and have difficulty preventing or getting rid of my erection. The whole thinking about something else idea never works for me. I tried lots of home remedies but still get an erection anyway. It would be very helpful if you could help me out.
Your problem appears to be of a personal and professional nature and there is nothing ridiculous about that. After consulting a colleague of mine who is a urologist this is what he has suggested: ” Ejaculating immediately prior to your scheduled time of work will be very helpful for you because you will then be in your refractory period when modeling.” The other suggestion that I have for you is to focus your attention upon what you want to have happen as opposed to what has happened in your past experiences. You might soothe yourself by reminding yourself that in preparation for your work as a nude model you have taken the time to ejaculate and you are now ready to relax and focus upon the job that is ahead of you.
Mar 05, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex | Tags: Allowing, Connection, Trusting | Leave A Comment »
Why is it so hard for people to tell the truth? I feel like everyone is so fake.
We are coached from a very early age to tell people what they want to hear instead of what we are actually feeling and thinking. This way of communicating tends to follow us into our adult lives. I believe that on an intuitive level many people experience the challenge of how to become real and live their truth. Not “the truth” but to become their own authentic self which is a moment to moment and day to day conscious process. I do not think that anyone is fake, it’s just that people are way more concerned about what others are thinking, feeling and saying about them and this is where the internal conversations that we are having with ourselves gets a bit tricky for us. We are not sure that we can take the risk of relaxing into our connected state of being and still be accepted. We have become a master of disguises and at the end of the day my hope is that each and every person can embrace their own truth and relax into the sense of well-being that comes along with it.
Mar 03, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Psychologically Speaking, Spiritually Speaking, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I am and have always been a “people pleaser.” I hear my own inner voice but I do not listen to it often. I am afraid that if I am true to myself that I will end up all alone. How can I become true to myself without setting other peoples needs aside.
This is an interesting question. The best news ever is that you hear your own inner voice even though you do not listen to it often. The thing is that if you are temporarily choosing to turn your back on your self which is what you are doing when you choose not to listen to your inner voice, then you are in essence disconnecting from yourself. It is not possible to authentically meet another person’s needs when we are disconnected from ourselves. If you could begin listening to your own inner being more often and reconnecting with your true self you will never feel alone, and you will be so much more available to assist other people with their needs. It is actually a win win for all
Mar 02, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Psychologically Speaking, Spiritually Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Connection, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
Are you really saying that If I create alignment with anything that I do before I do it that it will turn out successfully?
“Yes,” I am saying exactly that! The process of creating alignment begins with a conscious thought. The next step toward creating alignment for yourself is to line up the feeling with the thought so that you create harmony between them. Once you have achieved this balance, thus creating the alignment, you can choose to either take action or choose to not take action. From your place of alignment the action becomes an extension of your inspiration. It feels like the most natural thing from beginning to end because you have consciously and clearly paved the way for a brilliant process that could only lead to a successful outcome.
Mar 01, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Psychologically Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
