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My boss calls me into her office at least once a month to tell me what a nice job that I am doing. She then goes on a 5 minute rampage about my two co-workers beginning with how they dress, speak and finally venting her feelings about their overall incompetence.You would never know that she feels this way by observing her interacting with them. The other day I overheard my boss talking negatively about me to another manager in our company. What a 2 faced bitch! Should I just confront her?
I am so sorry and no you should not confront her. However, please take this information as confirmation that you have a boss that in fact is clearly unable to be straight forward with you and your co-workers. This is only a reflection of your boss and has absolutely nothing to do with you. People who chose to talk about other people instead of talking to them have a disconnection with the relationship that they are experiencing or rather not experiencing with themselves. Stay focused on yourself and the next time you are called into your boss’s office to hear this 5 minute rampage simply excuse yourself by explaining to her that you really need to get back to your work.
Feb 27, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Highlights, Psychologically Speaking, Uncategorized | Tags: communication, Connection, Energy, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I have been intimately involved with a married man for 3 years. His wife has MS and from the beginning of our sexual relationship he made his position abundantly clear to me. He loves her and will never leave her. I went into this relationship with my eyes wide open but I believe that I can have more with this man that I have developed deep feelings for. What is wrong with me that I am not able to hear what he is saying to me and either accept it or end it?
From what I understand about your current situation, you are involved with a married man who is clear that he loves his wife and will not be leaving her. You have developed deep feelings for him and believe that you can have more. First of all, there is nothing wrong with you. Your deep feelings have quite naturally developed as a result of the intimacy that you have consciously chosen to share with him. You may want to identify for yourself what the “more” would be. Is it more time spent with him or do you believe that he will change his mind and reconsider his marital situation? May I be so bold and say that it has been my personal and professional observation that married men do not leave their spouses. This being said, the real question that you may want to explore is, do you forever want to be the other women. This is a question that you appear to be avoiding asking yourself and listening for the answer. This has more to do with your own relationship with your self and what is being clearly reflected back to you by your current situation. I would love to see you use your current situation with its abundant clarity as a way for you to tune in and begin hearing yourself. Once you begin to ask yourself the questions, be open, as the answers will come quickly and clearly to you, for you and about you.
Feb 25, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: affair, Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
When is sexual pleasure with multiple partners considered to be promiscuity
The definition of the word promiscuous as well as the inference implies that of someone whom is indiscriminate, casual and somehow haphazard or irresponsible. The judgement within this adjective is completely contrary to the word and meaning of pleasure. We can certainly choose to create and engage in all kinds of sexual pleasures with multiple partners without it ever being haphazard or irresponsible. Consensual sex with another or others is always a beautiful thing when we share ourselves from our most intimate connection with ourselves. In my opinion there is nothing indiscriminate about that.
Feb 23, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I have been 60 lbs over weight for most of my adult life. Last year on my 37th birthday at the strong suggestion of my MD I began a diet and exercise program and have lost almost all of the weight. My friends and family told me that I was going to have more confidence and feel sexy and I don’t. I actually feel lost and more alone now than I did when I was overweight. What’s up with that?
Losing weight means different things to each of us. As a society we tend to place more emphasis on fat and thin instead of being healthy and having well being. It would be wonderful for you to begin to find your own voice and the meaning for yourself in regard to your almost 60 pound weight lose which perhaps was initiated by you for reasons of health and well being instead of feeling the desire to become more confident and feel sexy. You may choose to take some time and consciously become more aware of how you do feel 60 pounds lighter. This can happen through reconnecting yourself with feelings of self love and appreciation for the gem that you are. This is your journey for you, about you and what an amazing opportunity for you to reconnect with yourself mind, body and soul.
Feb 22, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Psychologically Speaking, Spiritually Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
Why would someone who has everything, a loving family, financial stability and more friends then god take their own life?
It is one of the most difficult things for the people who have been left behind to wrap their minds and hearts around. I believe that each and every one of us come into this world connected to themselves. Some along the way temporarily lose sight of their true connection with themselves. This distance creates a void that becomes excruciating. We can only attempt to assist someone in closing the gap between where they are and the reconnection with themselves; however they must ultimately want this enough for themselves to believe that it is possible. Conversely people whom take their own lives come to believe that the only way for them to feel relief from their own excruciating thoughts and feelings is to transition into the bliss of the non physical.
Feb 20, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Psychologically Speaking, Spiritually Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Parenting, truth | Leave A Comment »
My daughter is 10 years old, in fifth grade and is very much her own person. She does not appear interested in what the ”popular girls” are wearing or what they are doing socially on the weekends. She floats in and out of different groups without a best or close friend and seems very happy with herself. I was taken by surprise last week when her home room teacher called me to ask how my daughter is holding up from all the teasing that she has been receiving over the past few weeks from a few of the “popular girls’ in her class and to assure me that the school is aware of the issue and addressing it. My daughter has never mentioned a word about this to me and seems totally fine. I would know if something like this was upsetting her. When I did ask her about it she said, “Oh mom they don’t mean it” My question is this. Do I encourage her to talk more about this or wait until my daughter comes to me and has identified this as a real problem for herself?
How refreshing, a mother who recognizes and appreciates her daughters individuality and happiness with herself. This could only come from your own clear and loving connection with your own self. You wait and allow your daughter to do what she does best, navigate for herself from within. She will come to you, if and when this becomes a real problem for her and at that time she will also be able to tell you how it is that you can assist her; and you will be there to do just that.
Feb 18, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Psychologically Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Energy, Loving, Parenting, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
