Highlights
Is there a difference between taking a stance and being clear?
Great question! When we take a stance we are in essence proclaiming something. There tends to be a lot of resistance in that action. It is like we are having to completely reject one thing in order to accept another. Clarity feels different. When we are clear for ourselves as we can only be, we do not feel the need to reject or judge anything or anyone else’s position or opinion. No one has to be wrong in order for us to relax into our own knowing for ourselves. Our own sense of clarity is what allows us to take inspired action. We are able to flow from where we are to where we would like to be without bumping up against anyone or anything. It is one of the most powerful and pure gifts that we may bestow upon ourselves and all others.
May 03, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Spiritually Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Energy, Loving, Parenting, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I worry about money all the time. When I have money I worry, when I have less money I worry. If it is not about the money, than what is it really about?
You have already figured out the most important part of your worries and that is, it is in fact NOT about the money. What it is about, only you can know. What I would like to suggest to you is this. Try to identify the content of the ongoing conversations that you have with yourself that either creates the worry or comes on as a bi-product of the worry. If you can then begin to identify the tone of this conversation that you are having with yourself and ask yourself if it is in any way familiar to you from your family of origin? We often unconsciously, pick up and take on vibrations or the feelings from other peoples conversations that are not our own. It becomes very important that we come to sort and sift through that content which is our own and that which is not our own but something that we may have unconsciously taken upon ourselves. Once you begin to do this you can start to recreate the relationship that you would like to have with and about money. Your new conversation will be based upon your own very personal and individual views about what money represents to you and how you feel about money as it ties into your life and the relationship that you have with it, in your now. Your new focus will in time begin to replace your worries as you start to identify and internalize a renewed sense about the wonderful resource and energy of money.
May 01, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Psychologically Speaking, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: communication, Energy, Parenting, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
It is not all about the sex, but it is all about the sex. Every since that starry summer night when my totally hot 18 year old neighbor sweetly introduced me to sex (upon my request) I have used sex as the emotional gateway to the connection with myself. It is the sex that drives me in every relationship that I have. I feel like an addict because I need the sex to reconnect me with me. Is there another way?
Of course there is and what a beautiful way for you to have been introduced to such a loving act. Your request of your 18 year old neighbor could only have come from the emotional connection with yourself first. You most definitely trusted your inner guidance and desire which led you to reach out with a level of trust of yourself first that you then extended to your “totally hot” neighbor. You are connected to yourself and you have somehow misunderstood your own powerful connection which is what you actually bring to your sexual experiences and not the other way around. Now that being said, as the powerfully connected goddess that you are, you may choose to extend your connection and share yourself with another or keep it for yourself with the knowing that it is you that reconnects you with you and the sex is just the cherry on the top.
Apr 30, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
If we only have unconditional relationships with people how on earth do we ever get our needs met?
The way that you have asked this question leads me to belive that you believe that our needs are meant to be met by others. I have a different senseability about this. Our choice to unconditionally love, give, receive, share, know and trust ourselves and others is how we meet all of our own needs. The most important relationship that we will have and go on to have is the one that we create with ourselves. This relationship sets the tone for everything everywhere all of the days of our lives. So, if you can buy into this sensability and wrap your mind around the concept of all without any conditions, giving and receiving with both hands, an open mind and a open heart no exception, you may begin to understand the power that you have stepped into. We let everyone off of the hook allowing them to be whom they are, which completely frees us up to kindly ask our ego to step down as we remain connected to ourselves. We create alignment with our desires and live out our dreams unconditionally without exception.
Apr 27, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Parenting, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I find myself judging everyone and wanting them to be more like myself- polite, communicative and respectful. Is this really asking so much of the human race?
It is my belief that we have not come here to change anyone. What we have come here to do is relax into the essence of who we are forever becoming. What I find to be true is that when we are choosing to ask our ego to kindly step down and resume our connection to ourselves as we guide ourselves with our inner knowing, we feel good. We can only do this for ourselves and not for another. When we feel good we are not concerned as to what others are doing, what others are saying and how they are acting. We are clear about ourselves and this clarity comes from within ourselves. The good feeling place that we are in resonates within us and out from us, and we begin to attract others that are feeling similarly true to themselves. We begin to more clearly see the positive aspects of everything and everyone and this is our path to personal freedom. Everybody gets to do it their own way and low and behold the law of attraction sorts it out every single time. So, I would like to suggest to you that you focus upon you and only you and get back to your good feeling place where I am quite certain you will begin to attract many, many others
Apr 26, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Psychologically Speaking, Spiritually Speaking, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I have been living on my own since leaving my dysfunctional alcoholic mother and her big time loser live in boyfriend. As a straight A student in high school I used to dream about going to college and actually making something of myself. I have been supporting myself by waitressing at a diner in the day and making the most of my natural good looks by cocktail waitressing at night. I would really like to meet someone and start dating but I feel ashamed that I am not doing more to make a better life for myself. I am ready for a career change, hell I am ready for a complete life change. My question is where do I begin?
You have already begun. You have made some very empowering and brave choices for yourself. The first choice was recognizing that you wanted to conduct your life in a different living situation from that of your mother’s. This is exactly what you are doing. You are working two jobs that are providing you with enough income to support yourself as you live independently from your mother and her live in boyfriend. This in itself is something wonderful for you to feel good about. If college is still something that you would like to peruse, may I suggest that you look into the possibility of taking some on line courses. Your local community college is another option for you to consider. As far as wanting to meet someone I would get going on that right away. You are smart, good looking, tremendously brave and very resourceful. I cannot imagine a man that would not be attracted to what you have to bring to the table and I am not referring to food or drink.
Apr 25, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Dating, Family Relationships, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Psychologically Speaking, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Parenting, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
