How To Bring Her Comfort

A dear friend of mine has cancer.  She will have surgery soon. What can I say to her that will bring her comfort? I have such a strong feeling that she will be okay.

This can be tricky. Sometimes the people in our lives that we care so much about and are experiencing disease and illness, are not quite ready to be comforted. It is not our place to presume that they need our comforting. What I have found to be the most helpful for our friends and for ourselves is if we can vibrationally hold them in a space of well-being in our minds eye as we continuously flow love and light to them. It would be wonderful for your “dear friend” to know that you are thinking and thinking and thinking about her. Your strong feeling about her being o.k. is what will soothe you into remaining connected to yourself and that is always the best possible way for us to assist others.