I like to fuck for the sake of fucking. It’s fun and free-ing. If I am really wanting a long-term partnership, will my playing with my playmates slow down my attracting my ideal mate. While I’m in the midst of playtime, I am focused on that. When I am not, I occasionally ponder this question.
– Rockin’ Cougar
Sex is the physical extension of our expression of how we feel about ourselves from our greatest point of connection with ourselves. The physical expression of two or more people coming together from a point of loving connection is the most perfect example of sex. When we are loving ourselves, sex is freeing and fun. The only thing that will stop you from attracting a long term partnership with another is your current belief system. Check in with yourself and ask yourself “what are are my own thoughts and feelings that I have created around attracting an ideal mate for a long-term partnership.” You will know the answer immediately and I do not think that it will have much to do with your joy of having sex.