Is Cybersex Cheating?

I like cybersex; am I cheating on my girlfriend? – Anonymous

Having a virtual experience cannot take the place of the real thing. In many ways it can actually enhance the sexual experience that you are having with your girlfriend. The more important question is, how do you feel about having cybersex? If it feels good to you and you can re- frame the experience as something that will enhance your existing relationship with your girlfriend then go for it. However, justifying the experience is a very different feeling than feeling good about it. So take a step back and ask yourself if you are in alignment with this virtual sexual experience? This means that you are consciously creating a harmonious balance between your thoughts and feelings about engaging in cybersex. From this place of alignment move forward and enjoy your virtual experience with the knowledge that it can only enrich your existing real time, real life, intimate sexual relationship with your girlfriend.