I consider myself a serial monogamist. I go from relationship to relationship and how I feel about myself comes from how my relationship is going on any particular day. I have not been able to find my own sense of self outside the confines of a committed relationship. What’s a girl to do? From your […]
May 16, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: communication, Connection, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
My wife reads a lot and I usually do not give much thought to her reading selections but this book has really gotten my attention. Not only is she reading a sex trilogy she wants me to blind fold her with my tie take her over my knee and spank her and then have kinky […]
May 16, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Jealousy, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex | Tags: communication, Loving, Oral Sex, Role-playing, Sex, Temptation, Trusting | Leave A Comment »
The happiest memories of my childhood are from the times spent with my mother. I was an extension of her and she loved and adored me with all of her heart. I wanted to be a mother myself one day too share this sweet relationship with my own child. I am 34 years old and […]
May 14, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Spiritually Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Energy, Loving, Parenting, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
My parents got divorced when I was 13 and my brother was 14 and we have always lived with our mom and saw our dad some weekends when he wasn’t busy with his girlfriends. We are now 17 and 18 and our mom has not been out on one single date, that we know about. […]
May 11, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Dating, Family Relationships, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Psychologically Speaking, Uncategorized | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Energy, Loving, Parenting, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
My 16 year old daughter has been interested in boys since the young age of 13. Since this time she has either been crushing on boys or dating boys. She has repeatedly told me not to worry because she knows what she is doing. I have believed this to be true until last week. I […]
May 10, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Dating, Family Relationships, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Parenting, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
We consider ourselves the gang of six. It is me, my two best girlfriends and their husbands. We all got married and had our children at the same time, have gone on every spring vacation together and continue to celebrate our grown children’s highs and lows, together. My girlfriends and I are all turning 50 […]
May 07, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Uncategorized | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Role-playing, Self-love, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
Is there a difference between taking a stance and being clear? Great question! When we take a stance we are in essence proclaiming something. There tends to be a lot of resistance in that action. It is like we are having to completely reject one thing in order to accept another. Clarity feels different. When […]
May 03, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Spiritually Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Energy, Loving, Parenting, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
It is not all about the sex, but it is all about the sex. Every since that starry summer night when my totally hot 18 year old neighbor sweetly introduced me to sex (upon my request) I have used sex as the emotional gateway to the connection with myself. It is the sex that drives […]
Apr 30, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
If we only have unconditional relationships with people how on earth do we ever get our needs met? The way that you have asked this question leads me to belive that you believe that our needs are meant to be met by others. I have a different senseability about this. Our choice to unconditionally love, […]
Apr 27, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Parenting, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I have been living on my own since leaving my dysfunctional alcoholic mother and her big time loser live in boyfriend. As a straight A student in high school I used to dream about going to college and actually making something of myself. I have been supporting myself by waitressing at a diner in the […]
Apr 25, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Dating, Family Relationships, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Psychologically Speaking, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Parenting, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I have always felt as if I am living a double life. Where I came from is not anywhere that anyone that I know could ever imagine or understand. I have successfully escaped the nightmare that I call ‘my childhood’, so I thought. The identity that I have created for myself is reflected in my […]
Apr 24, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Dating, Family Relationships, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Spiritually Speaking, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Parenting, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
My wife is a devout follower of Abraham Hicks and you of course. She takes complete responsibility for her own happiness and never comments on my perpetual state of unhappiness. I feel bad about myself when I consider the lack of contribution that I make to her internal happy state of being. My greatest fear […]
Apr 18, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
If a women loses her virginity, does it mean that she no longer deserves to be respected? I have always thought about virginity as something that you give away happily and willingly. We must honor and cherish ourselves; both of which fall into the category of deeply respecting ourselves. It is a beautiful thing when […]
Apr 17, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Spiritually Speaking, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: communication, Connection, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
Why do I lose myself when I fall in love? Falling in love is such a beautiful thing and it is also a chemical thing. The research shows that when a person falls in love, 12 areas of the brain work together to release euphoria-inducing chemicals such as dopamine, oxytocin, adrenaline and vasopression.We can easily […]
Apr 13, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Dating, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Spiritually Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
After almost 40 years of marriage I just discovered that my husband has been unfaithful. He admitted to me that he has been so at different times during our marriage but currently this is not one of them. This discovery came to my attention a few days before one of our grown children was to […]
Apr 02, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Should I Stay Or Should I Go, Spiritually Speaking | Tags: affair, Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Parenting, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
When I met my boyfriend I believed that he was perfect. Everything he did, everything he did not do, it seemed perfect to me. Now he has changed and all I see is how un-perfect he is. What takes us so long to really see the person for who they are? Your question is very […]
Mar 24, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I am a 56 year old recently divorced women who has been out of the dating scene for a very long time. What are your thoughts about who should have the condoms available for safe sex. Do I carry them with me or do I assume that these men that I am going to date […]
Mar 20, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Dating, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Sex and More Sex | Tags: communication, Connection, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting | Leave A Comment »
Please help me. I am in a emotionally abusive relationship and cannot find any power in knowing this. In fact I hate myself for not having the guts to leave. How is knowing and not doing anything about it having power? I would like to assist you in better understanding the power of having access […]
Mar 08, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Psychologically Speaking, Should I Stay Or Should I Go, Spiritually Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I have been intimately involved with a married man for 3 years. His wife has MS and from the beginning of our sexual relationship he made his position abundantly clear to me. He loves her and will never leave her. I went into this relationship with my eyes wide open but I believe that I […]
Feb 25, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: affair, Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
My father beat my mother daily and when I turned 13 I stepped in and called the police. We moved away from my father that year and have not seen him since. I am now 22 years old and have come to realize that every women that I get involved with is somehow needing to […]
Feb 16, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: communication, Connection, Loving, Parenting, Role-playing, Self-love, Sex, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
I live in New Jersey and take the train into NYC for my job. My co-worker lives in NYC and we have a nice rapport with one another. We casually chat about our spouses but I have never met her husband, only seen photos of him on her desk. I recently saw him in my […]
Feb 15, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Jealousy, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Sex and More Sex, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: affair, Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
My fiance is going to Las Vegas for his friends bachelor party and despite what my girlfriends say about “what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas” I am not at all worried. Am I being as naive as they tell me I am being ? It is funny how everyone, especially our friends often have […]
Feb 13, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Ego, Energy, Loving, Self-love, Sex, Temptation, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
We are two young professional girls living in a big apartment in the city and only one of us is having a good time. My roommate is out every night with different friends and on the weekends always manages to hook up with some great guy. Then there is me. I am home everyday after work […]
Feb 11, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Dating, Help I Am Stuck, Highlights, Psychologically Speaking, Uncategorized, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Connection, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
Why do people stay in miserable relationships for so long and sometimes forever? Great question! Some people do not even realize that they are miserable and because they have been at it for so long are unaware that there may be something better for them. Oh, they look out into the world and can sometimes […]
Feb 08, 2012 | Categories: Consciousness, Family Relationships, Highlights, Hypothetically Speaking, Love and Relationships, Psychologically Speaking, Should I Stay Or Should I Go, Vibrationally Speaking | Tags: Allowing, communication, Connection, Loving, Self-love, Trusting, truth | Leave A Comment »
